Alter be ashamed

So Wigan lass Nikki Jane is set to be the next biggest thing in Hollywood pornos?

Hmmm.

I know she’s not hurting anyone and that some will admire her sassiness but how is she going to feel about her hard-core porn past in ten years' time.

How will her future kids manage to be anything other than horrified when they find out (which they will of course) their mum’s past.

In fact, I’m getting ahead of myself, how will any future boyfriends feel about the fact their girlfriend gets paid for sex on camera?

Getting paid to sleep with strangers, for other strangers to watch is never going to be a fast track way to keep any self-respect.

Nikki Jane says she’s happy, says even her MUM is happy for her, but I can’t help thinking this “career” choice is just a whole lot of heartache and problems waiting to happen.

What do you think? Have your say here.

Comments

[clare colins]

How on Earth can your mother be proud, there is being open minded but I am sure any mother would not want her daughter to have a career based in the sex industry.

Would she be as proud if you were a prostitute.

I couldn't think of a worse career choice. Having a daughter, who was once your little girl and you wanted the best for her, doing hard core porn.

I couldn't think of anything that would break my heart more.

[mrs cooke]

We can all comment on what others do, hey we all have that right..

the fact remains, this is the career choice of this lady... not ours.

How on earth do YOU know how this lady's mother feels??

The fact remains Clare - we all have views, I dont like the idea of what this lady is doing, however it is her choice, not ours, and lets face it, non of our business too.

and naughty to predict and assume what her family may or may not feel.

Life is difficult enough these days to worry about someone else too !!

warm wishes

Mrs C

[adam]

well done nikki.
don't you think it will be lovely to see this lady ont those movies.
we are waiting to see your movies

[sandra]

WARNING...if you open your mind too much, your brain will fall out!

[Miss B]

Nikki never said her mum is proud, she said supportive like any loving mother should be. She probably thinks its great that her daughter has left cold & depressing england to have a better life in America. Its only sex, she isnt hurting anyone. Its an honest career, you cant exactly try & hide it from anyone. This girl is obviously confident & inhibited, what is so wrong with that. I think only small minded people will have something bad to say about her career choice. I think go for it girl & pay no attention to what nasty comments people write

[Jason Watkins]

Many women who are in the porn industry have kids. Most, if not all, women in the industry fully understand that it's a sensitive issue and handle it accordingly. The sad thing is when other parents find out, thay invariably don't want their children anywhere near them.

And most women in the industry tend to date within the industry as well because men who aren't in the industry simply can't handle the fact that their girlfriend is paid to have sex on camera.

Nikki will be financially secure for life within a few years and will be able to provide for her family for the rest of their lives as well. She will be treated with respect and well looked after by Vivid, so good luck to her.

[Rich C]

I feel really sad for Nikki - if she feels she will find happiness she is very misguided as most porn stars end up on drugs and alcohol just to deal with the spiral of deprivation their life becomes.

[Chumpy]

"Nikki will be financially secure for life within a few years and will be able to provide for her family for the rest of their lives as well." "Jason Watkins"

Jason - Very unlikely, the initial contract she will have got will be for 8 or 9 films, and the high rate is only cause she is fresh, next contract will be much lower. Average porn pay is less than USD$1000 per scene. The makers are always keen on a getting a "fresh face".

[Buddy]

This isn't the place to moralise over what she does, Its the place to say things like flippin eck I'd give her one, by gum shes the hottest thing to come out of Wigan and how much to take part in a film with her.

[John]

Yes Buddy.
That's right.
And if you found out,time allowing,this was say your own mother/sister what then?
This is not liberation at all.

[martyn spence]

i say good for her and il support her all the way and i wanted to be a porn star when i was younger but didnt know how to get into it so if she is wanting help then i will be loving to work with her x

[Alex]

Good luck to her - she is of course as entitled to make her own choices as the rest of us.

I'd be gutted if she was my daughter though.

[tony h]

I’m from Wigan and I used to see Sam running up and down our local road training, I’ve seen her first film and it was outstanding so I say go for it girl and be up there with the best good luck Sam

[Gavin]

good 4 her
she can cum c me any time

[Gavin]

if it is what she wants let her do it

[fatpeas]

I'm from wigan, I know nikki's brother, she is doing what she wants to do, and she's gonna make more money doing it than any of us. good on her I say, I've seen her 1st film, and though I was shocked - I can remember her as a little girl! I think she is right, she IS good at what she does. The porn industry is one of the biggest industries on the planet, and is becoming more and more accepted in society all the time, frankly, anyone who thinks that it's ok to put her down for her chosen career, in my opinion, are out of touch with the modern world and prudish. If you're offended, DONT WATCH IT.

[Lorraine Gee (MUM)]

SAM (Nicki)
Support you loads and always will, Your ora as never changed around us, you are so loving and giving. You are an adult and you are entitled to choose your career in life and to be so open towards me as a mother I could not ask for anything else.

My time with you in LA was so so special

LOVE YOU MORE THAN EVER !!!!!!!!!
x x x x x x x

[Carl]

Go for it girl,lifes to short!your so beautiful and elegant just like a butterfly!!!! your spiritual nature will carry you forward in what ever you do in life. GOODLUCK SAM XXX C U SN X

[Tom]

Money and a fast lifestyle are fleeting, but self-respect, and the respect of your family and friends (current and future) is forever. Besides, but a couple hundred grand (which is what she'd probably NET over a career if she's successful and budget-conscious) is not worth it, to do what porn stars have to do.

[Mr C]

Does any1 know her last name, i used to work with her and iv forgot it, cheers

[Miss A]

Yes her last name is HAYWOOD

[Gill D]

I went to school with Sam/ Nikki she is a lovely girl who is free to make her own choices. She is not hurting any one, it's her choice, and people should not juge her for how she makes a living, as long as she is happy good luck to her! xx And sod what everyone else thinks!

[Rich C]

The recent comments are a sad reflection on what this country has become - a vacuum where people are trying to fill the void with money and meaningless sexual experiences. If a mother is happy for her daughter to be in the Porn industry it says a lot about her daughters upbringing and the needs that she did not give to her. It breaks your heart....

[kanya]

Go girl!!! love its! if u happy wi wot u do go for it bb,The thing that would make u happy is yrself and if u happy to do its! WHY NOT!!?. keeep on working hard and u reach yr dream bby i wishing u the best of luck and soo cool to b yrself xxx

[Nick]

Congratulations, Sam on your new career! Pay no mind to these pretentious prudes who would try and tear you down to make you feel bad. You're living the dream; doing something that you are both naturally good at AND enjoy doing is a happiness that most people will not ever know. Just don't let LA tear you down, it can be your best friend or your worst enemy. There are lots of people that will smile to your face and be your best friend whilst stabbing you in the back. As another from a small town that made the transition to Hollywood life once, take it from me. Watch your back, keep your head up, don't burn bridges, but always maintain caution. In other words, be the pleasant person you are but always maintain a healthy level of skepticism when it comes to trusting other people. Take care, darling!